Accept yourself as what it is

We all know that how important self-confidence is in our daily life and career, and many people spend a lot, time, money and efforts, on building self-confidence, but some are still lacking the right confidence. They try hard to make themselves look stronger and impressive, but still turn to be coward and unconfident. A key point many people forget about is that we should love ourselves just as what we are instead of an ideal image we hope we can be.


We were born to be like this and we grew up just with all the qualities we already had. It’s really hard to improve ourselves to the ideal image, and most of such efforts will fail and just cause us even less confident about ourselves. Why not just accept what we are? We were created to be such people and we should learn to make full use of all the qualities we have. If I cannot become a great football player like Archie Manning, I can just still love the sports and put on Archie Manning jersey to watch every game he or his team plays. I am not likely to be as beautiful as Jennifer Lopez, but I can be popular with my friends by treating people around me with a kind heart. I love myself simply because I’m myself, not anyone else.

Self-confidence firstly comes from self-esteem. Even you dislike yourself, how could you be confident in yourself and let others be confident in you? From this day on, love yourself as what you are and others will be impressed with the real confident you have in yourself.